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Why is there a difference in relationship between sons and daughters with their parents?
What is the reason for a son having a closer affiliation with his mother than his father, yet a daughter an equal relationship with both?
Do sons grow up to compete with their fathers, yet continue seeing their mothers as MOM? Do daughters see both still as parents due to their relationship with their husbands? I have a great relationship with my son, but more as an equal and friend.
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